random thoughts!!

Of late I’ve been hearing a lot of people say they don’t want to repeat the same mistakes in life; they don’t wanna see themselves hurt again and things!

Makes me wonder, what are they trying to say? Are they rejecting happiness because sad days follow it? Are they accepting sad phases when what follows is comfortable numbness?

Why doesn’t anybody say they want to be happy again? Why do they think doing the same things all over again will surely hurt them? Why are they learning lessons from somebody they anyways don’t think too high of now?

I mean how can you be full of hatred for a person and say “oh he/she taught me a lesson for life! I’m never gonna do this again”??
Is that person even worthy of learning something from?

Or do we believe- doing things differently & being restrained with other people who probably deserve to get the best from us, making them pay for somebody else’s deeds or totally different situations- not hurt us again?

Whoever said we should learn from our mistakes was such a boring guy! I’m sure all his girlfriends would have dumped him within 12 minutes of commiting, and rather than finding faults with himself, he concluded life is always the same and we should thus not do the same things to remain sane! :P

On a serious note (trying hard ;)) even if we were hurt in the past, didn’t the happy days outnumber the bad ones?? Things we call mistakes now, probably showed us our best times. Most of the times, our actions were what made us happy and not people!
So why not do things again with all your heart and be happy once more!! :)